How Do Hens Do It?

I'm going to a hen party tonight. I've never had anyone get married on me before, so I don't know what the protocol for this type of event is?

Do I need to buy a gift or a card?

My colleague, Sam, she's a couple of months younger than me and insisted that nobody dress up/hire a stripper/handcuff her to a lamppost. I mean, where's the fun in that?

She even had her mother arrange the hen party on a weeknight, so most of the women going have to go to work the next day.

We're all going for a meal. And that's it.





It's my first hen party, her only hen night, am I crazy to think we should/should want to go wild?

Come to think of it, I think perhaps the gift and card are for the wedding. Sorted.